Sad news

On Saturday, my clever, quirky, brilliant Mum left this world for the next. Known for her off-the-wall sense of humour and passionate beliefs, she has left a big hole in the hearts of those who loved her. An affectionate person with lots of love to give, Mum wouldn't pass a homeless person without giving them some money and she was particularly drawn to life's under-dogs whom she thrived on helping. Fiercely loyal, she was also very thoughtful, and birthdays and Christmases were ideal opportunities for her generous present giving. 

Sadly, however, her life was blighted by my sister's death and she never recovered from this agonising loss. Steph and Mum were like kindred spirits and loved animals and sunny days. They were just happy to be in each other's company. Without her, life was difficult, and we tip-toed through debilitating periods of sadness and frustration.   

Despite this tragedy though we had many treasured times including lots of holidays where we mostly laughed like drains at our family's in-jokes. We particularly loved Spanish holidays where Mum would be happy dangling her feet in the pool and enjoying the sun on her face. Moments to be treasured.

At times a force to be reckoned with, at others a fragile soul, wearing her heart on her sleeve, she was a complex person with a storming intellect.

My world will be significantly the poorer without her.